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1 Mrs. Micah January 23, 2008 at 8:15 pm

I really think proportional contributions are the best way to go if you have separate finances. It just seems more fair. I prefer combined finances simply because we don’t have to worry as much about fair. We may do some kind of “allowance” private accounts once we actually have money for that kind of thing. :)

2 Green Panda January 23, 2008 at 11:01 pm

I wanted to ask because I’m a bit curious to see how other do it. Our came about smoothly, but we’re tweaking it as we see fit. Thanks for sharing Mrs. Micah.

3 Randall January 24, 2008 at 5:01 pm

We’ve never really split our finances, but that’s because of the “It’s not his/hers anymore, it’s ours” mentality.

But that’s hard to move to when you’ve been managing your own finances for a long time.

I’ve been married for a long time, and it took a lot of back-and-forth before everything was comfortable. We had separate finances at first, but it was difficult from a logistics point of view (a la. MrsMicah’s statement).

It was also easier when the wife went from worker to stay-at-home mother. The transition was seamless and no one complained about having to ‘pick up the slack’.

4 MrTrend September 24, 2008 at 9:27 pm

Could you please elaborate on why proportional contributions are more fair than splitting 50/50 when it comes to rent, groceries, electricity, water, internet? Aren’t both persons in the relationship roughly consuming the same amount of those?

5 Green Panda September 25, 2008 at 11:15 am

@Mr Trend: That’s a common question and deserves a thorogh explanation, soI’m going to write about it in detail tomorrow. Here’s a quick rundown, though:

Technically my husband consumes more resources than I do, but it’s not too big of a deal. What if there is a big difference in income? If you split it 50-50, one side may pay 20% your pay, but the other one pays 60% percent of their pay. That’s not completely fair.

Another situation to consider is if one spouse says at home with children. 50/50 of the bills isn’t fair.

The main idea is to have both parties agree to a payment plan.

6 Crystina September 25, 2008 at 1:55 pm

I like your system! My fiance and I have a similar system that has worked well for the year we have been living together. When we get married next year we might open a joint checking account, but I don’t think anything will change. I earn a little more than 2x what he earns, however, he has a nice savings account for a house and no debt. I have little savings and a fair amount in my student and car loans. The way we have it set up is a 60/40 split on bills, 55/45 split on rent, and 50/50 on groceries and entertainment. I keep track of who pays what and occasionally we trade money back and forth depending on who has paid more recently (main reason for a joint checking account). I really like your system, but with my debt I couldn’t handle the loan payments if it were the true percentages – 67/33.

7 Green Panda September 25, 2008 at 2:07 pm

@ Crystina: Thanks for pointing out another situation to consider. The amount of debt one has is another factor in working things out. Your system seems a bit cumbersome with the three splits, but if i works, good for you!

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